Wow. I haven’t been on here since … August? Oh wait! I replied to a comment on September 5.
How fitting of a discovery for my first post since taking a break from… well.. pretty much everything testing related (other than work).
So what led me toward taking a break from things? I’m glad I asked. Let’s see:
- Took and successfully completed the BBST Foundations 2.0 course hosted by AST – Yay!
- Narrowly avoided a breakdown three weeks into the course – <>Yay!
- Found out I was not accepted to speak at Let’s Test 2014 – !=Yay!
So yeah, that kind of sucked a little. The BBST course almost broke me (I’ll write about that in detail, including some advice for future attendees in a separate post soon). The Let’s Test rejection, even if it was well founded in the end, didn’t feel all that good either. I lost interest in all of this. I felt defeated and disinterested. So I decided to take a break. I most of my momentum on pretty much everything “extra” I was doing professionally, and I really felt like I just needed to get away from everything.
I spent most of that extra time working through some family things going on, getting a shed delivered and setup, winterizing the yard, etc. I went to work. I came home. I hung out with my family. I played some games. That was it.
So where did it get me? Well.. all that time off showed me a few things. It first showed me that taking a break from things was OK. Sure I had waves of “but.. but if I stop blogging/tweeting/reading/collaborating/other ings bad thing X will happen”. In the end though, nothing bad happened. Well, other than Phil gently harassing me about some promised blog posts. Mentally, I needed the break so I took a break.
In the end, I also learned that I really missed all of it. I missed the community. I missed being engaged in something bigger than me. That feeling started to trickle back in two or three weeks ago. Now, I feel like I’m totally here again. I’ve got a ton going on, I’m excited about all of it and I think it shows.
Was it OK for me to take a break? Absolutely. It helped me get over my funk. It helped me recharge. I see it sort of like that thing the Amish do when they send their kids off to the non-Amish world to get on a television show about how much they drink so see if they will return to the farm. I decided I liked … sorry, I can’t keep that analogy going any further, it’s insane. In the end, I came back. YMMV, but if you are feeling overwhelmed, or stretched too thin, take some time off. If you blog constantly, and it’s wearing on you, stop for a while. It’s OK. If you feel yourself being pulled in too many directions, take a breather from the non-critical things.
Everyone needs time to stop and relax and sometimes, just be.
What now? Well, since everything I just finished describing, I started looking at Twitter with a little more regularity. After a few good conversations there, I ended up with a small group of people who wanted me to blog about various things (I think this is the first of four I need to write soon-ish). This then is my rough timeline of things I’ve done since my pause:
- Hey, Twitter!
- The CAST Live interviews went up, including mine
- Elected to the program committee of NOSQAA
- Accepted to speak at QA or the Highway (2 for 8 is better than 1 for 6!)
- Did I mention I have to wear a kilt? Thanks Hilary
- Started working on a bitchin’ proposal for CAST 2014 with a cross-Atlantic co-presenter
- Finagled a way to attend Let’s Test 2014 as.. well… an attendee
- Asked to write some stuff for the thing (can you tell I talk to Matt a lot?)
- Began some secret research.. hopefully I can write about this in the future
- Discovered Paul didn’t wipe my blog off his server (thank’s Paul)
- Figured out how to log back in to my blog
- Started writing this post
I really think I’m back now. I took some time off, my brain got better, and now I’m here again. Hell, I told someone today I should try to take a sabbatical from work to bank some family time next summer so I can attend /another/ conference. Who does that? Seriously?
Editor’s Note: (yeah, it’s just me still) I get this isn’t the best post, but come on, I have to restart somewhere. I’m rusty at this writing thing. Hopefully the BBST, AST grant sponsored NOTiCE meetup, and testers to follow on Twitter posts will be better.